InsaneJournal

Current mood:	confused
Current music:	Law & Order

Whoa....
So I'm in teh bathroom this morning and the phone rings and I can't get it in time so the answering machine picks up. I come out of the bathroom a while later and check the machine not thinking anything about it.

Turns out it's the still MRS. Gaylord. Yup. The one he left for my aunt. The one he didn't have the guts to face when saying he wanted a divorce. The one he just abandoned. That one.

The one my aunt calls psycho because this woman dares to be upset about the whole affair (which is what this is).

The tirade left on the machine was actually pretty tame, no bad words but a lot of hurt and a lot of anger. She could have said some things a bit more tactfully, but she has every right to throw a fit.

No doubt when Judy and Gaylord hear it tonight (mom said not to delete it) that Gaylord will call his wife and get all upset with her like she's the one with the problem.

I don't understand this whole thing at all. How can this be love? It's certainly not RIGHT whatever it is. And in the end I think Judy will be the one that's the most hurt in all of this.

The Mrs. asked my aunt what gave her the right to take her husband, and I'd like to know the same. Gaylord gave up thirty one years of marriage for this. Is he in this relationship for the long haul, or when another "childhood crush" comes along will he leave Judy asking these same questions (though she can't be as surprised if it happens considering what he did to have her).

It makes me have less respect for my aunt, and none for him. It's just UGH!